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I Am Doing Something Abominable And I Know But I Need Help

 

I am like I said doing something abominable and I know. But I cant help myself. I am an existing member of this very popular "website" but I cant post this using my original ID for fear of the stigma cos some of friends in school knows me online.

I am 23yrs old and I am sleeping with my two elder sisters husbands. I am the last girl in a family of 4, 3 girls & a boy. The boy is the oldest. The most painful part is that I am in love one, who happens to be my immediate elder sister's husband. my immediate elder sister is 4yrs older than me. I have always had a crush on her husband right from when they were dating but I never thought it will get to the stage of me sleeping with him. Their marriage is 2yrs although they have no children yet. I am in LASU and their house is close to my school so I moved in with them after their wedding. Our illicit affair didnt start until april last year. My sister works on the Island and leaves for work very early in the morning while the husband is a business man in Alaba market. So I am left with making his food in the mornings before he goes to work. The first time was a mistake but it has never stopped after that mistake. It is actually a daily routine except on weekends that my sister doesnt work. I have cried several times because of what I am doing to her because she doesnt deserve it. She is a wonderful person...

On the part of my eldest sister, her husband is very wealthy and so he buys me things I can only dream of whenever he travels. He calls me baby of the house. They have 3 kids. His own is that he seduced me with a drink on my 20th birthday. I lived with them from when I was 17. We still do once in a while but its usually against my will cos he buys me stuffs even as I am in my immediate elder sister's house. I think I am finished if this thing gets out. I want to stop but I am already in love with my immediate elder sister's husband. He is so caring and so romantic. Someone please slap me out of this.

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Comment by ogechi on January 24, 2011 at 2:13pm

Sorry i dnt know what to say,cos ur saying dat ur in love dat means ur crazy and you dnt want to live dat abominable act and seek God face for a change and pray 4 ur own husband, until u stop this u will not ve peace in ur live cos the prayers of ur sister will be causing u more harms and bad luck forget abt the things and gifts now it will surely back fire if u continue pls stop now i advice, and ask God forgiveness b4 u put urself 2 shame.

Comment by betty joyce on January 24, 2011 at 12:08pm
Should I say dat she is under a spell or something b/cos she knows wat she is doing.  Now dat she is confessing is she going 2 be doing it.  And let me tell U if U don't know as U do 2 others so wld others do unto U okay.  SO desist 4rm such acts and ask God 2 take control okay.
Comment by ugheghe enoma on January 24, 2011 at 11:39am

you did not need my advice

 

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Comment by Terry on January 24, 2011 at 10:38am

Well i believe the only thing you can do is MOVE out from your immediate elder sister house because forget it no amount of prayer u pray you will not be able to resist Him, (Why) because you are already in Love with it him.

The Bible says “Abstain from all appearance of evil” 1 Thessalonians 5:22.

Secondly your rich in-law, please stop receiving things from him and try as much as possible not to be with any one of them alone that will really help.

Please note this: if you try to stop both of them will hate you for that but asked them if you where to be their daughter or sister and the secret finally come out how will they feel.

My people they always talk say: Na only tey he go tey starmara go always call him papa name. Meaning the secret will be expose one day and asked yourself if the any one of them where to be your husband.

The day the secret will come out both or any of them will say you seduce them and the everybody will believe them, so girl wise up

Comment by eskor on January 24, 2011 at 9:20am
Pray to GOD that He should put an enmity between you and your sisters husbands. Every day you wake up pls pray that prayer. STOP sleeping with them, make that your new year resolution, and watch out for GOD's blessing on your life.
Comment by Jibril Babangida Bala on January 23, 2011 at 6:23pm

Correct thank GOD that you revelead the sin just ask GOD for forgiveness forget about anyone.

But never go even similar sin like that,try and get marry,fear GOD wherever you're if you can't see him he is always seeing you,so don't let him get angree with you.

Thank you for sharing the sad thing with us we are all  here for help purposes and prayer.

Comment by Soji Ayoola on January 23, 2011 at 4:51pm
Let me first and foremost salute your courate for speaking out.  It is better to expose your sin before it exposes you.  With God all things are possible.  Go to God in serious prayers with fasting asking for forgiveness.  If God forgives you, no man can condemn you.  Again, please be determined to stop the act.  You can start by leaving the house where you are staying for now.  This will reduce the temptation and gradually you shall get over it.  May God help you. 
Comment by Lajand on January 23, 2011 at 4:04pm
The Bible says he without sin should cast the first stone. I'm sure you'll have worse, hidden and gory tales of your own, hence please don't cast assertions at her for this bold move. My 2 cents: Go and seek a good pastor and report everything to him/her so that you can repent seek the face of the Lord. However, be careful and ensure you seek a good pastor as impostors would only take advantage of your vulnerability and sink you deeper in the infirmities.
Comment by Sharemi Olumide on January 23, 2011 at 3:30pm

Beta now.. where dd all u guyz wt stable minds go to b4!

The raw deal here is: if u cant back ur action up in public, dont do it.

'Cos secrets eat u all up from inside till u're far far gone.

..N u really dont want that, do ya?

So do it rite.. n alwayz.

Comment by daniel john on January 23, 2011 at 1:36pm

repent from all this thought of yours about both men, ask God to forgive you, and at the same time forgive yourself.

Also move away from that house, go and stay with someone else but before you do this let both men know that u are a change person. God shall surely help u

 

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