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Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post Jonathan "aka" Jega Jonathan Ebele Goodluck Azikiwe To Meet Atiku, Babangida, Gusau, Others – Presidential Aide
"Obama and Clinton closed their ranks after the primaries, It is good for the PDP to work together. Other parties are growing stronger and attractive and it is very certain that the number of states controlled by the PDP will dwindle in the 2011…"
Jan 17, 2011
Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post Atiku in Trouble may Face Jail Time
"litmus test for the judiciary"
Dec 28, 2010
Tari commented on 9jabook.com's blog post Wikileaks Naija:Yaradua's Death,US AMbassador Comments :Shell had ''access to everything'' in Nigeria - WikiLeaks
"for those who think this is a leak,I don't think there any thing special and new. Shell's role does not surprise me either. Most of the revelations have for long being in the public domain and some of them are routine underground…"
Dec 9, 2010
Tari commented on 9jabook.com webmadam's blog post Sharia: VC bans hugging of female students
"all is hypocracy, those who preach against alchohol hide it in kettles, evangelist who warn against watching television have satelite dishes in their homes. Now with hugging on the agenda what do you expect. The practise of religion is supposed to…"
Oct 30, 2010
Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post Apapa Arms Iranian Suspect Seeks Refuge in Iranian Embassy
"the qusetion is ; why should the arms come to NIGERIA. We already have enough security challeges"
Oct 29, 2010
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Oct 22, 2010
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Oct 22, 2010
Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post Why Dokpesi was arrested for bomb blast
"Dokpesi said Niger Delta militants were sent by Jonathan to threaten his life recently when he became IBB's campaign director. Now he is the one using criminals to destabilize the country, Nigerians know those who are specialists in eliminating…"
Oct 5, 2010
Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post The Witchhunting begins as Bomb probe raises political tensions
"I can see the evil in this write up, You can call the on going investigations witch hunt or whatever you like, you can even insinuate that Jonathan's people have rejected him, after all that was the impression the evil people had wanted to…"
Oct 5, 2010
Tari commented on Paul "EFCC" Hawk Adams's blog post Photos of suspected bombers Released by police
"The next bomb by the Grace of the Loving God should explode in the brain of the person who does n't wish Nigerians well."
Oct 4, 2010
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"Make some research to ascertain if it is true"
Sep 29, 2010
Tari commented on 9jabook.com's blog post Taxi Driver Who Hit Jonathan’s Car Charged For Attempted Murder .
"This blog was recycled from the Leadership newspaper, one thing I have discovered about the low levels to which journalism has sunk in this country is that some people set out deliberatly to mis-inform the public"
Sep 29, 2010
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"some blogs are really laughable, it goes to show that in Nigeria people have so much fertile imagination."
Aug 31, 2010
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"Look at the map and study it before critizing. Some times we open our mouths too wide and not too intelligently"
Aug 27, 2010
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Posted on May 19, 2009 at 3:40pm 0 Comments

If after Odi the struggle could not be stopped by the might of the federal forces , what makes them think that they have a solution through the force of arms.

Something tells me the restiveness is divinely ordained to change an unjust system that has exploited and degraded a people and their environment for too long. It must be understood that the so called criminal activities of the militants which some people are using as a weapon to denigrate the struggle is a derivative of the violence… Continue

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At 3:27pm on June 9, 2009, michael ojugbo said…
Have a wonderfull day too.A hold up free trip to your home.
At 2:23pm on June 9, 2009, michael ojugbo said…
At 2:21pm on June 9, 2009, michael ojugbo said…
u re rude and raw .if u ve heared this severaly not all.We know lagos is home of stand up comedy.And i watch those shows as a VIP.To God be the glory i have a good career .PLEASE I AM NOT HERE 4 PPLE LIKE YOU STAY OFF.
At 11:38am on June 3, 2009, okoro francess said…
At 5:42pm on June 2, 2009, TIMI said…
big bros if adulphus hidillar could not finished d jews during German reign (escape frm sobebo) no nigeria nothern army can finished d izons. bravo to militant.
At 11:26am on May 20, 2009, Henry Uche Ukah said…
Ukraine is fine nd how is Nigeria?
At 4:55pm on May 14, 2009, oluyinka olusile said…
hello Tari. How are u doing.
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At 3:41pm on May 5, 2009, wirelex said…
Bro, thats quite true. Not intended though, just that sometimes we all get holed up in a lot of other sh....t!!!.
How are you doing though? so where is your location and how are you finding this space. kinda not too busy, but its picking up.



Corruption is not stealing it is Covetousness At its Fullest... Corruption is not stealing it is Covetousness At its Fullest Potential.
Taking What Belongs To other People

adjective: covetous

having or showing a great desire to possess something, typically something belonging to someone else


... It was a pool party.

And they were there.

Men who have...
... It was a pool party.

And they were there.

Men who have achieved.

Money, power and fame.

Men in their prime who tell time to hold still since they have refused to age and it grudgingly obeys in detente and in temporaneous.

They dress young, they dance young, they act young.

They are current on all fronts.

Most of them married with children but mentally and emotionally single.

At this party they threw in a high brow residence in an exclusive neighbourhood in Ikoyi there was an abundance of food, drinks, drugs and real youth.

The youth came exclusively from the girls that were in attendance.

Girls in their late teens and early twenties.

Well spoken and extensively travelled.

Daughters of the materially blessed.

All of them students.

All of them naked.

Some where in the swimming pool, some at the bar, some danced under the cabana, others were hobnobing with the swimming trunks clad men at various places in the specially lit pool area that stood under the starry night sky.

And I sat with one of them.

She was caramel smooth, finely contoured, delicately featured and doe like.

She was twenty going on twenty one.

And a sophomore at Babcock university.

To every question I asked, she took a drag from the reefer in her hand, blow out the smoke through her mouth and nostrils, took a sip from her glass of Hennessey and coke on ice before she responded.

Her voice was sweet.

And her smile was rapturous.

"I heard students need permission to leave your school. How could you get out this late and stay overnight?"

"We have our ways."


"Yeah all of us."

"From Babcock?"

"Not all. Some from Covenant, Redeemers, Madonna, ABUAD, Pan African and stuff."

"No unilag or UI?"

"They ain't boujee."


"Yeah. They are crass. Men like you guys don't want to roll with local cats like those right?"

I looked at her silently as she took a drag from her reef.

The aroma assailed it. It was caustic yet not aggravating.

"What's that?"


"What's that?"

She laughed.

"It's good stuff. Hits you slowly and then makes you soar like superman."

I looked around and saw the girls doing one thing or another in their nudity.

She was staring at me.

"Is this your first party?"

I nodded.

"No wonder you are asking all these hang questions."

"Why do you do this?"

"I'm young. I need to live life before it becomes to serious and I have to be all grown up."

"But why the drugs?"


"Because what?"

"Because this is how we roll. Everyone has their poison. If you not on reef, you do codeine or cocaine or heroin or speed or AZT or ecstasy or royfenol or fentanyl or meth or oxy or worst case you inhale glue and get your high."

I stared at her as she inhaled and exhaled languidly.

"Why the parties?"

"You get your hit for free here. You have fun. You make good money."

"But for you to attend those schools you must be rich."

"My parents are not me."

"But they give you money."

"They pay the tuition and all. Not like they can give me a million in cash."

"Do you get a million here?"

"Well two or three parties can make me that."

"Aren't you afraid of running into your Dad at places like this?"

"Naaaa... my dad is too square and busy but even if he is not then it is his problem after all he came here for what I came here for so he can't tell me nothing."

I fell silent and watched her inhale and exhale smoke.

"But you know, your folks put you in schools like that to protect you?"

"Too protect me?"


"They are too busy to even bother."

"No they are not."

"Yes they are. They think the school will be both my teachers and my parents."

"I think they are just worried about you getting corrupted."

"I was balling like this under their nose and they didn't even notice. Funny thing is that even the innocent Jane get influenced in school, so what was the use of all the headache of keeping us locked up in all these secondary schools that front as universities."

"They did it out of love and with the belief that those schools are way better than the public ones."

"Well they fucked up."

"Fucked up?"

"Is this an interview or what?"

"No I am just intrigued."

"And I am horny."

I fell silent.

She dragged, exhaled, took a drink from her glass, sucked on one of the ice cubes in her mouth and asked in a whisper.

"Are you going to do anything about it?"

~ Jude Idada


The best time to do core parenting is between ages 0-12. You simply cannot afford to be too busy at this stage. Schools, nannies, extra murals cannot replace core parenting at this point. If you are absent in your child's life at this stage, be sure someone else is shaping your child's worldview .

At 12 a child's curiosities are set. And they spend their teenage years exploring those curiosities and fantasies and experimenting with their identities.

If you attempt core parenting in teenage years, you will meet a brick wall and you might end up with a fractious relationship with your teen.

Your best mode as a parent of a teenager is to "befriend" them. At this stage you can't take anything for granted you will have to earn their trust. Seek to influence them not control at this point. They will resist control but will respond wonderfully to influence: yours or the streets.

-Excerpts from RAISING A2040Teenager by Johnson Abbaly.

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